Divorce often brings significant changes to family dynamics, including the possibility of relocation. When a parent considers moving out of state with their children, it is important to understand the legal implications under state law.
How does Virginia law handle these matters?
Virginia law prioritizes the best interests of the child in custody and relocation matters. The law also does not allow a parent to unilaterally decide to move out of state with their children if it affects the other parent’s visitation rights. The court requires the parent making the move take specific steps, including making a formal request for relocation. Upon review, the court will consider the following:
- Best interests of the child: The court evaluates how the move will impact the child’s well-being, including educational opportunities, emotional stability, and relationships with both parents.
- Impact on visitation: The court assesses how the relocation will affect the non-custodial parent’s ability to maintain a meaningful relationship with the child.
- Child’s relationship with both parents: The court examines the child’s bond with each parent and how the move might alter these relationships.
- Reason for relocation: The parent must provide a legitimate reason for the move, such as employment opportunities or family support.
- Educational and social opportunities: The court evaluates whether the new location offers better educational and social prospects for the child.
The process can be relatively easy if both parents agree to the move but becomes more complicated if one contests the matter.
How do I request relocation?
The first step is to file a motion with the court. This generally involves submission of a formal motion requesting permission to relocate. It should include detailed reasons for the move and how it benefits the child. At this time, unless you can establish good cause the court requires 30 days written notice.
It is also important to have a conversation with the other parent. If possible, have this conversation early and see if you can come to an agreement. If it is not possible to have a productive conversation with the other parent or you cannot get the other parent’s approval, the court will still require you to move forward with “formal” notice to the other parent. This involves sharing your intention to relocate and providing the other parent with the motion details.
Next, gather evidence supporting your case, such as job offers, school information, and testimonials from family members. These steps can not only help to better ensure compliance with state law but also to demonstrate your commitment to acting in the child’s best interests and respecting the other parent’s rights.
Relocating with children after divorce involves careful consideration and adherence to Virginia law. Parents must prioritize the child’s best interests and respect the other parent’s rights. By following legal procedures and taking time to prepare to make your case, you can work through the complexities of relocation and help better ensure a positive outcome for your family.

